What I’ve Learned About Business, Culture, and Hustle from My Indian-American Friends
When you’re a kid growing up in America, you start noticing patterns early. You notice who stays late after class, who asks the hardest questions in math, who already has their own YouTube channel, and who somehow manages to get straight A’s while running a tutoring business on the side. In my school, more often than not, those people are my Indian-American classmates.
As someone who wants to study business in college and maybe own my own company one day, I’ve started paying more attention to who’s doing what—and why. And I’ve realized something pretty eye-opening: Indian-Americans are playing a huge role in the future of business ownership in the United States. They’re not just starting companies. They’re dominating in a quiet, disciplined, no-excuses kind of way that’s honestly inspiring.
I’ve also realized something else: I love Indian food.
Let me explain.
A Community of Hustlers
At my high school, a large percentage of the students in AP classes, robotics club, and math league are Indian-American. These aren’t just smart kids—they’re driven in a way that’s hard to put into words. They take their schoolwork seriously. Really seriously. While most kids might cram the night before a test, my Indian-American friends start preparing two weeks out, doing extra practice problems for fun.
Some of them have parents who are doctors, engineers, or small business owners. And they talk about those jobs with pride, but also with this sense of responsibility—like they’re expected to build on what their parents started. There’s a quiet pressure in their lives, but also a sense of purpose. It’s not just about getting into college. It’s about doing something meaningful after college.
I asked one of my friends once why he studies so hard, and he said, “Because my parents left everything behind so I could have opportunities. The least I can do is take them seriously.” That stuck with me.
Franchises, Family Businesses, and the American Dream
What’s interesting is that a lot of Indian-American families in my town own businesses. Some own Dunkin’ Donuts or gas stations. Others run tech consulting firms or own multiple real estate properties. These aren’t flashy Instagram businesses—they’re the kind that run smoothly, turn a profit, and pay for college tuition, family trips, and future investments.
I started researching more and learned that Indian-Americans make up less than 2% of the U.S. population, but they own a huge portion of the hotels, convenience stores, and franchise restaurants across the country. In fact, over 50% of all motels in the U.S. are owned by Indian-Americans, many of whom come from a small group of villages in Gujarat.
It blew my mind. I used to think of business ownership as something only big-shot CEOs did. But it turns out, owning a franchise or a local business is just as powerful—and often more sustainable. Indian-American families have figured that out.
Food, Family, and Focus
Now, about the food.
If you haven’t had homemade butter chicken, dosas with chutney, or fresh biryani cooked by your friend’s mom, you are seriously missing out. I’ve been lucky enough to be invited to a few Diwali parties and family dinners, and the food is next-level. But it’s not just about the flavors (which are awesome)—it’s the culture around the food that stands out.
There’s always a sense of community, tradition, and hospitality. Whether it’s grandparents, cousins, or younger siblings, everyone’s included. And a lot of the conversations end up being about goals—who’s applying where, who’s launching a business, who’s trying to become a doctor or coder or entrepreneur.
It’s a different kind of dinner table. You leave feeling full—and motivated.
Lessons I’m Taking With Me
As I get ready to apply to college and think about my future, I find myself looking to my Indian-American classmates as examples. They’ve taught me that:
- Hard work isn’t optional—it’s the starting point.
- Education matters, not just for getting into college, but for building confidence and credibility.
- Owning a business isn’t about ego—it’s about independence and opportunity for your family.
- Culture and community make you stronger, not weaker.
There’s something powerful about seeing your friends take things seriously. It makes you want to rise to the occasion too.
The Bigger Picture
I think one of the best things about growing up in the U.S. is getting to see so many different kinds of people succeed in so many different ways. Diversity isn’t just a buzzword. It’s what makes the business world more creative, more competitive, and more interesting.
It also means there’s no one right path. But watching how Indian-American families invest in education, support each other, and build generational wealth through business has made me think differently about what success can look like. It’s not just about getting rich. It’s about building something that lasts—and sharing it with the people you care about.
Final Thoughts
I don’t know exactly what I’ll do yet. Maybe I’ll go into finance. Maybe I’ll launch a business. Maybe I’ll franchise something cool and bring it to new cities. But I know this—whatever I do, I want to take it as seriously as my Indian-American classmates take their schoolwork, their families, and their futures.
And when I finally make it, I’m celebrating with samosas.
About the Author
Alex Neonakis is a high school student who loves business, history, basketball, and butter chicken. He’s passionate about entrepreneurship, exploring different cultures, and finding the best food spots with his friends.









