The Wind Beneath Butterfly's Wings: Becky Wang's Journey

At 24, former software engineer Becky Wang thought perfection was the answer to everything. Then autism entered her world and everything changed.
Founding a franchise requires such soft skills as kindness and the ability navigate a complex system of services to the aging and autistic populations was not on her radar at all. "I was very detail-oriented and had a strong desire to make everything perfect." While her son struggled to sleep through the night until age 10, she did her best to keep a perfect home after grinding through a high-level corporate job. “I was bringing files home and working till 2 a.m. and trying to get by for years on 3 to 4 hours sleep.”
Her breaking point became her breakthrough. "I realized life is not perfect, my house does not have to be perfect. I became more flexible. I learned to relax.” She laughs. “I learned to give myself a break!"
That flexibility would prove essential when Wang faced her son's teacher's gentle suggestion about autism. "I just cried. I had never heard of the word autism," she admits. Growing up in China, she resisted labels and help until her son was six years old. It was then she discovered the comprehensive support system available in the United States.
Studies by the American Pediatric Association also point to the complexity of services needed because autistic individuals, particularly those with co-occurring medical conditions, require diverse and specialized healthcare services across various settings. The Center for Disease Control's Autism and Developmental Disabilities Monitoring (ADDM) Network reported a significant increase in autism prevalence, with a 2022 estimate being 1 in 31 eight-year-olds and predicted continued increases in prevalence and improvements in early identification could indicate increasing need for services.
Securing support services for her family and herself ushered in a gradual but profound transformation . "I started seeing my life get better and improvements in my son. So, I started helping a couple of friends and I saw their lives get better,” she recalls. “That is when I saw there was more I could do."
This realization set in motion her determination to create Butterfly Home Services, a franchise dedicated to supporting families navigating autism with a leadership philosophy centered on the lessons her sons taught her: “I have to thank my sons for teaching me so much about being strong when I was doing my best to split my time between my two sons, one who has autism while the one who does not played football. When I realized I can not do it all, they taught me to rely on my team. My team is like family to me and each and every one of them is a great support because they are compassionate people who have helped me develop a culture that allows everyone to grow.”
Her approach to selecting franchisees reflects this wisdom. "They have to be kind people, people with empathy," Wang explains even organizational skills are a distant secondary skill she looks for in future owners. "The most important thing is just that they are a nice person, a really kind person." Business skills can be taught; compassion cannot. Without a compassionate advocate, many families and their autistic loved ones miss out on services that can vastly improve the quality of their lives, Wang believes.
The metamorphosis from a Mom seeking solutions for her family to a franchisor founding a meaningful and profitable franchise, has been more than cathartic. Beyond the benefits to multiple communities and new business owners, the impact on her family runs deep. Her autistic son once wrote her a note on torn paper that she keeps for daily inspiration: "Mom, I love you most in the whole wild world." His younger brother mastered the challenges of having a sibling with autism and grasped the rewards of emotional regulation at an early age. In the silence between unspoken words, Wang feels their appreciation of her unrelenting effort to provide each of them the best life possible.
"Our family has learned what it really means to be responsible and that it is not all about being perfect," Wang reflects.
From a perfectionist engineer to an empathetic leader, Wang's journey embodies the metamorphosis her company name suggests—proving that sometimes the most beautiful transformations come from life's unexpected challenges.
About the Author
Robyn Deering is a franchise consultant in southwest Florida and author of the upcoming 'Corporate Refugee's Guide to Franchising: Trade Job Insecurity for Business Ownership That Works.' Contact Robyn at Robyn@TheFranchiseConsultingCompany.com.








